Grief is. It lives. It It arrives at your door expectedly and unexpectedly and there is no way to stop every human being from experiencing it. Grief has stages or so I am told. These stages range, in no particular order, from denial to acceptance. Their purpose is to take you to a place where […]
Enabling is Like a Game of Chance
Delaying growth is your crime. Playing Savior is your verdict. Enabler for a lifetime is your sentence. How can you tell if you are an enabler? You are an enabler if the enabled no longer appreciate help but instead expect it. It is easy to fall into that trap. Becoming an enabler does not happen suddenly. […]
Purging
Purging is different than simply throwing things away. There are items that need to be removed permanently but it is really hard to let go. It’s a real emotional attachment. Some of these forgotten items have been buried away from my everyday life. Looking and holding these memories again gives me pause because I know […]
I’ll Be Scammed!
WELL I’LL BE SCAMMED! Scammers are everywhere! I repeat SCAMMERS ARE EVERYWHERE! Our job is to be aware that their number one objective is to get what you have obtained with hard work with little or no work. So I will be discussing ways to avoid scammers throughout the life of this blog. Doesn’t matter […]
Holidays
Holidays are not merry for many of us. We suffer, we grieve But in God we trust. Our friends and our family See us through the hard times. We find joy in our spirit In our heart and our mind.